More and more couples are choosing to live together without getting married. However, while cohabitation is increasingly common, the legal protections for cohabiting couples in the UK remain limited. Many people mistakenly believe in the idea of a “common law marriage,” assuming they have the same legal rights as married couples. Unfortunately, this is not the case.
In this guide, we’ll break down cohabiting couples’ key legal rights (and limitations), debunk the common law marriage myth, and explain how to protect yourself if you’re living together but not married.
Many people believe that living with a partner for a certain period automatically gives them the same rights as a married couple. This is known as the “common law marriage” myth. In reality, common law marriage is not legally recognised in the UK.
No matter how long you’ve lived together unless you are married or in a civil partnership, you do not have the same legal rights.
Cohabiting couples in the UK do not enjoy the same rights and protections as married couples. Here are some key legal areas where the differences are most apparent:
While legal protections are limited, you do have some rights—particularly if steps are taken proactively:
A cohabitation agreement is a legal document that outlines each partner’s rights and responsibilities while living together. It can help avoid disputes and protect both parties in case of separation.
You can include:
Cohabitation agreements are legally binding if properly drafted and signed with legal advice.
Unlike married couples, cohabitants have no automatic right to inherit if one partner dies without a will. That’s why writing or updating a will is essential.
There have also been recent discussions around “predatory marriage”—where vulnerable individuals are pressured into marriage, which can override earlier wills. This further highlights the importance of both legal clarity and protection for unmarried couples.
Unmarried parents can still seek financial support for their children. Legal provisions under Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989 allow for:
While the relationship between the parents may not be legally recognised, the child’s needs remain a priority under UK law.
Cohabiting couples do not have the same rights as divorcing spouses. If you split up:
Having a cohabitation agreement can make this process smoother and less contentious.
In 2024, the UK government announced plans to review cohabitation laws to offer better protections to unmarried couples. Campaigners have long argued for reform to help families who live together but lack legal safeguards.
While change is not guaranteed, it’s clear that awareness and legal clarity around cohabitation are growing—and reforms may be on the horizon.
Consider speaking to a family solicitor if you:
Cohabiting without legal protections can leave you vulnerable. There’s no such thing as a common law marriage in the UK, but there are ways to protect yourself.
Drafting a cohabitation agreement, making a will, and seeking professional legal advice can go a long way to ensuring peace of mind.
While proposed reforms aim to address legal gaps, progress remains slow. Until legislation changes, cohabiting couples must proactively secure their rights. As Jo Edwards, chair of Resolution’s family law reform committee noted regarding a study into cohabitation laws: “Choosing not to marry shouldn’t exclude individuals from legal protection when relationships end.”
Key Takeaway: Consult a family law specialist to draft a cohabitation agreement – a 2023 study found these reduce post-separation disputes by 76%. With 50% of cohabiting couples never planning to marry, such protections are no longer optional but essential.
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